Paving the Way to Make Him Commit
You and your girlfriends have been talking about another girl’s engagement to Mr. Right over a cup of coffee. Everybody thinks that they are really meant for each other and you are all happy for them, but there’s this nagging thought at the back of your mind, “Why doesn’t it happen to me?”
You have probably noticed by now that most of the men you dated cannot come near the commitment that you are willing to make in your relationship. Even if you have been exclusively dating for a long time, he is just not keen on discussing the word commitment. It makes you wonder if they are built with the fear of settling down.
Admittedly, there is a grain of truth in the your observation. Most men seem to be as keen in committing as a cat is in taking a bath. Going for casual relationship, dating as many women as possible and having an uncomplicated social life does not help in encouraging the men to finally settle down.
The good thing is that the not all men are like that. You must have had a guy friend who loved the dating scene so much and marriage never crossed his mind. But when he saw a woman who was fun to be with and interesting things suddenly changed and the last time you heard they were about to walk the aisle.
For short, men’s thinking about marriage and commitment can be changed if you know how.
Basically, the most important skill that you need to learn is how to keep open communication. By saying this, it does not mean that it would only be your voice that will be heard and your feelings that will be shared. These are conversations that are reserved for your girlfriends on your next coffee date. Open communication means that the lines are open for you and for him as well. Learning to listen to his thoughts and emotions will greatly help your relationship as it will allow you both to talk about anything and everything under the sun. Make him feel that you value his thoughts by listening.
Believe me, knowing how to communicate with him will make him realize that you are a lot more interesting than all the other women who just tells him how her day was. By proving that you are a good communicator, he will then excitedly wait for your next conversations because he knows that you will intellectually stimulate him with your interesting thoughts every time you talk.
As a bonus, the more he opens up to you, the more you will understand him. You can use this information to your advantage. The more you that know about his interests, the more you will know how to keep him interested in your for a long time. You may find it surprising to know how differently men think from women.
To cut the long story short, even if men prefer to be single, you can easily make him change his mind if you know how. To pave the way to make him commit, keep communication lines open and two-way. By doing this, you can be sure that you will be walking the road towards commitment in no time.
Aaron Adams specialises in relationship matters for women.
Visit http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com to find out how to talk to a resistant man about commitment.
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